How freeing yourself from money worries lets you #LiveLifeBrighter

Picture a life where stress and worries take a backseat, where your daily concerns don’t revolve around making ends meet or fretting over unexpected expenses. That is what a brighter life means to me. It’s a life unburdened by financial strains, a life where you have the freedom to chase your dreams, nurture your relationships, and explore your passions without the constant shadow of money problems looming overhead.

Financial Stress and Its Impact

Let’s rewind to the past – a time when my journey (together with my husband’s) was just beginning. Fresh out of college, I found myself not only navigating the world of adulthood but also shouldering the responsibilities of parenthood. The weight of financial obligations grew as my husband and I pursued career paths that differed from our college majors. Climbing the corporate ladder was exhilarating, but it came with its share of challenges, particularly as we juggled building a family alongside our demanding careers.

The differences in how my husband and I managed money only added to the stress. Our contrasting financial styles led to disagreements and misunderstandings, increasing already existing tensions. It became clear that money was not just a tool for transactions; it was intertwined with our emotions, choices, and even our happiness.

Old Gel and Volts 2
Old Gel and Volts 3

Back then, I was constantly fretting over utility and credit card bills, wallowing in bitterness because I felt like I was being left behind by my peers who are out partying at clubs, dining at fine restaurants, or job-hopping to more glamorous or higher paying work, while I was stuck at home, learning how to be a wife and parent, or stuck at work, earning a paycheck to settle the burgeoning bills.

I won’t be surprised if there were times when Hubby didn’t like me then, given how often I nagged and complained. To tell you the truth: looking back, I wouldn’t like me either.

The Journey to Financial Independence

Fast forward to today, and our story has taken quite a different turn. Over time, we’ve come to realize that financial independence isn’t just about having a substantial bank balance; it’s about understanding how money works and aligning our goals and values. (Of course, it helped that as our brood grew to two children, our motivations for getting our act together doubled.)

Also, as we matured and our careers stabilized, we gained a better grasp of managing our finances as individuals and as a couple.

This is when we started to see a shift.

We began to communicate more openly about our financial aspirations, fears, and plans. Gradually, we moved from vastly opposing views on spending and saving our money to meeting in the middle. With this newfound alignment, there was this tangible sense of relief and freedom. It was like shedding an invisible weight that had held us down for far too long.

Cultivating a Brighter Life through Financial Freedom

With financial worries fading into the background, we saw some changes in our relationship as well. We began to appreciate each other’s perspectives, strengths, and even quirks. This newfound understanding brought a renewed sense of togetherness, as we faced life’s challenges hand in hand.

Bali Trip
Bay Area

But it wasn’t just about us as a couple. As individuals, we started investing more in ourselves – exploring passions, hobbies, and interests that had taken a backseat during the turbulent financial times. By pursuing career paths that aligned with our competencies and interests, we were also able to develop as professionals and experience pride in our work. We also learned to manage ourselves better, making wiser purchase decisions and putting more value on things that will benefit our family in the long-term, rather than just giving us a momentary taste of luxury. Ultimately, these personal shifts not only made us happier but also added new dimensions to our relationship.

I can definitely say that at this point, we are living significantly brighter lives.

First things first: The Financial Planning Pyramid

We all have our unique personal and financial journeys but there are some bits of wisdom that guide us, no matter our unique circumstances.

One of these is the Financial Planning Pyramid.

Sunlife Financial Planning Pyramid
From SunTalks Digital Media Edition “Achieving Your Own Brighter Life”

This tool serves as a road map, determining our current priorities as they pave the way towards our long-term financial objectives.

For instance, as Hubby and I worked our way towards financial liquidity – being able to cover our family’s daily needs, managing our debt and being secure of our ability to weather calamities ranging from bad weather to work disruptions – we are able to devote time and energy towards pursuits that greatly contribute to our family’s health and happiness, as well as those that protect and build wealth that improve our way of life, as well as transfer as our legacy to our kiddos.

This is just one of the many insights that I, together with fellow bloggers, learned during the recent Sun Talks Digital Media Edition “Achieving Your Own Brighter Life.”

Sunlife Achieving Your Own Brighter Life
During the SunTalks Digital Media Edition “Achieving Your Own Brighter Life” (I’m in one of the Zoom frames :-))

During the session, Sunlife Agency Strategy & Digital Transformation Head Jenny del Mundo and Sun Life Advisor Josh Jayzzer de Leon shared their personal experiences and smart tips on how everyone could achieve financial freedom to be able to achieve their own brighter lives.

Fundamental to all of these learnings, of course, is the need to manage money wisely to be able to grow it and live a life free from financial worries.

As I reflect on where Hubby and I were when we started and where we are now, the transformation is awe-inspiring. Our journey from financial stress to having a lot more financial freedom has taught us that money isn’t just currency; it’s the power to shape our lives, relationships, and happiness. The weight of worries has been replaced with the lightness of possibilities, and every day feels like a step towards a brighter future.

So, Dear Reader, should you ever find yourself bogged down by financial woes, remember that you hold the pen to your financial story. As you navigate the maze of financial choices, keep in mind that freedom from money worries is not just a destination; it’s a way of life, one that allows you to shine brighter than you ever thought possible.

Begin your journey towards financial freedom. Check out Sun Life’s life insurance products by consulting a Sun Life advisor or visiting its website.

Sun Life is a leading international financial services organization providing asset management, wealth, insurance and health solutions to individual and institutional Clients. Sun Life has operations in a number of markets worldwide, including Canada, the United States, the United Kingdom, Ireland, Hong Kong, the Philippines, Japan, Indonesia, India, China, Australia, Singapore, Vietnam, Malaysia and Bermuda. As of December 31, 2022, Sun Life had total assets under management of CAD 1.33 trillion. For more information, please visit http://www.sunlife.com.

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Is Your Home Keeping Up with Your Growing Family?


As your family grows, so do your needs for space, comfort, and functionality. The house that was once perfect for a couple may start feeling cramped as children come into the picture, bringing their toys, activities, and unique requirements. Knowing when to consider upgrading your house size is essential to ensure that your family’s changing needs are adequately met.

When Should You Upgrade Your Home?

The decision to upgrade your home should be based on several key factors. One of the primary indicators is space limitations. If you find your current living space feeling cluttered and cramped, with belongings spilling into every available nook, it might be time to start considering a bigger house. Additionally, the number of bedrooms becomes crucial as your family grows. As children reach a certain age, sharing bedrooms may no longer be a practical or peaceful solution.

Another factor to consider is functionality. Are you finding it challenging to accommodate your family’s lifestyle and daily routines within the existing layout? A house that worked well for a couple might become less convenient as the family dynamics change. Consider whether you need more open spaces, a larger kitchen, or a dedicated playroom for the kids.

Lastly, the emotional aspect of needing a home that accommodates your family’s growth is essential. A bigger house can provide a sense of stability and comfort, creating a space where everyone can thrive and make lasting memories together.

Sweet Couple playing under the blanket on the bed
Is It Worth Upgrading to a Bigger House?

Deciding whether upgrading to a bigger house is worth the expense and the effort involves evaluating both financial and practical aspects. While a larger home may come with a higher price tag, it can also be a long-term investment that pays off in various ways.

Financially, it’s essential to assess your budget and calculate how much you can comfortably afford. Take into account not only the down payment but also the ongoing expenses, such as property taxes, maintenance costs, and utility bills. However, keep in mind that investing in a bigger home might appreciate in value over time, potentially building equity for your family.

On the practical side, a bigger house can offer numerous benefits. More space means everyone has room to pursue their interests and hobbies. It also allows for better organization and reduces the chances of clutter accumulation. Plus, a larger home may provide the opportunity to entertain guests comfortably, fostering social connections and family bonding.

Happy couple at Home office with Online business, Marketing online and freelance job
What Is the Ideal House Size to Raise a Family?

The ideal house size for raising a family varies depending on individual preferences and needs. While some families may thrive in a spacious suburban home with a backyard, others may prefer a more compact urban dwelling with easy access to amenities.

When determining the ideal house size, consider striking a balance between space and maintenance costs. A massive property might provide ample room to roam, but it could also demand more time and money for upkeep. Assess your family’s lifestyle and prioritize essential features that enhance daily living, such as sufficient bedrooms, storage space, and areas for family activities.

Remember that the right house size is more than just the physical dimensions; it’s about finding a place that feels like home, where your family can flourish and create lasting memories.

Cheerful Happy couple relaxing in sofa at home
Manage Your House Mortgage Payments

Managing your house’s mortgage payments is crucial for maintaining your family’s financial stability and security. Here are some valuable tips to help you stay on top of your mortgage:

a. Create a Budget: Develop a detailed budget that includes all income sources and monthly expenses. Allocate a portion of your budget for mortgage payments and stick to it diligently.

b. Prioritize Savings: Build an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses, such as repairs or medical emergencies. Having a safety net will ease financial stress and prevent you from falling behind on mortgage payments.

c. Use a Mortgage Checker: Utilizing a mortgage checker to calculate and plan your mortgage payments can help you determine how much you can afford, estimate your monthly payments, and explore different repayment options.

Upgrading your house size as your family grows is a significant decision that impacts your family’s comfort, well-being, and future. Knowing when it’s time to consider a bigger house, weighing the benefits, and finding the ideal size that suits your family’s needs are essential steps in this process. Additionally, managing your house’s mortgage payments is crucial for maintaining financial stability and ensuring a secure future. By using practical tips and tools like a mortgage checker, you can navigate this exciting phase of life with confidence, creating a home where your family can thrive and build cherished memories together.

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Sun Life Grepa Financial Achieves Major Milestones in 69th Year

In its 69th year of business, Sun Life Grepa Financial, Inc. (Sun Life Grepa), a leading life insurance provider in the nation, raised its position in the Insurance Commission’s (IC) most recent industry report for the end of 2022.

In 2022 alone, its total premium income (TPI) grew by 21% to P11.54 billion from P9.52 billion in the previous year. The company continues to be in the top 10 among insurers with the highest net income, climbing a notch to rank 8th with P1.19 billion in 2022 from its 9th spot in 2021 with P597.7 million. Furthermore, it increased its net worth in 2022 by 24% to P5.7 billion – the 8th highest in the industry.

Total assets at end of 2022 stood at P52.3 billion from P51.1 billion. The life insurer also climbed to 11th in 2022 with total new business APE of P1.69 billion from its 13th rank in 2021.

“We attribute our exponential growth to our singular commitment to helping our clients fulfill their protection needs, now and in the future,” said Sun Life Grepa President Richard S. Lim. “We, at Sun Life Grepa also has been proactively focusing on product innovation to meet the needs and expectations of our clients. As we believe that in these times of uncertainty, having an insurer that they can lean on because of its financial stability and strength, is very important.”

Sun Life Grepa has protected over 3 million lives, contributing to the country’s goal of providing Filipinos health insurance coverage and access to cost-effective and quality healthcare services.

It scored several milestones that coincided with its 69th anniversary celebration, including the recognition “Best Insurance Provider for SMEs – Philippines” from the 2022 International Finance Award and “MSME Insurance Initiative of the Year – Philippines” from the 2022 Insurance Asia Awards for its tailor-made insurance and protection solutions for the country’s micro, small and medium enterprises under its MSME MyBiz.

As part of sustaining its growth trajectory, the company boosted its affiliated medical providers by 25% in 2022 from the previous year. More than 1,300 hospitals and clinics across the country are now its affiliated partners. To support its network reach and enable customers to access Sun Life Grepa solutions and services faster and easier, the company also launched Sun Life Grepa Healthcare Teleconsult so Group Medical members can consult with doctors at the comfort of their homes. It also enhanced its online servicing platform to include semi-automated requests for the issuance of letters of authorization and consultation. On another note, Sun Life Grepa also recently received a Great Place To Work® Certification, the global standard for workplace excellence and culture.

This year, Sun Life Grepa aims to encourage more Filipinos to avail of health protection and life insurance coverage to secure their loved ones’ brighter future. The company plans to partner with more hospitals and clinics and make its products and services more accessible in the digital landscape, ensuring Filipinos’ convenient and easy access to quality healthcare.

“While uncertainties remain, I am optimistic that we will tackle the future fiercer and smarter. Sun Life Grepa’s commitment to helping every Filipino live healthier lives and achieve lifetime financial security remains unwavering,” said Sun Life Grepa President Richard S. Lim. “As we move forward in 2023, we will continue to have a laser-sharp focus on creating innovative ways to deliver quality insurance products and services that push Filipinos closer to their dream of financial freedom.”

Sun Life Grepa Financial, Inc. or Sun Life Grepa is a joint venture between the Yuchengco Group of Companies (YGC) and Sun Life Philippines (Sun Life). Sun Life Grepa offers financial protection products through its agency, bancassurance, and group account channels. YGC is one of Southeast Asia’s largest conglomerates with over 90 companies, while Sun Life has been a top player in the Philippine market for over 120 years.

Sharpen your money smarts with these online money games

Let’s face it: chances are, many of us aren’t money-smart.

Some of us can go through our entire lives without knowing how to make budgets work, save our earning, handle debt or even make our money grow into wealth.

Sadly, most of the education we received growing up involved practically anything except money matters. Whether this is due to the lack of appreciation of our educational institutions on financial literacy or the tendency of the academe to look down on matters of coin, this situation leaves us at a loss when it comes to financial problems.

What is money smarts?

Money smarts, otherwise known as financial literacy, refers to the knowledge and skills required to manage one’s personal finances effectively. It involves understanding how to earn, save, invest, and spend money in a way that maximizes one’s financial well-being and minimizes financial stress.

Money Games @ MortgageCalculator.org
Money Games @ MortgageCalculator.org

If you feel yourself lacking in any of these skills, you may need to brush up on your money smarts.

  1. Budgeting. Can you create a budget and stick to it? Do you understand the flow of your income and expenses and therefore know how to allocate your money accordingly?
  2. Saving. Can you put aside some money for short-term and long-term goals? Should a medical emergency that brings astronomical hospital bills, a major purchase such as a downpayment for a house, or sudden unemployment arise, will you have saved funds for it?
  3. Investing. Can you make your money grow aside from just working several jobs, thereby getting passive income? Would you know how to invest your money and manage your risks to support your goals?
  4. Debt Management. Would you be able to manage your debt responsibly, such as paying off high-interest debt first and avoiding unnecessary debt?
  5. Financial Planning. Can you plan your finances for a long-term basis taking into consideration your goals, income, and expenses? Can you plot out the steps you have to take and adjustments you need to make with how you earn, spend and save your money to be able to achieve your goals?

Why is it important to have money smarts?

Money smarts is important because it allows us to take control of our finances, bringing about these benefits:

  1. Financial Stability: It helps us ensure that we are living within our means and saving for our future.
  2. Reduced Stress. It provides us with the know-how to manage our finances effectively, eliminating guesswork and uncertainty.
  3. Better Financial Decisions. It allows us to make informed decisions about our money, particularly in terms of investing, saving and spending.
  4. Increased Wealth. It helps us increase our wealth over time through making smart financial decisions and investing in our future.

How to develop money smarts

If you find yourself lacking in money smarts, it makes sense to start developing it. The prospect may seem daunting at first, but with some dedication, you can take some steps to improve your financial knowledge and skills:

  1. Get in the know. Educate yourself about personal finance by reading books, attending seminars, or taking online courses about the basics of budgeting, saving, investing, and debt management.
  2. Start budgeting. Creating and sticking to a budget is an essential component of money smarts. Track your expenses for a month – including all expenses such as rent, utilities, food, and entertainment – and factor those into your budget.
  3. Set financial goals. Have a definite goal in mind to help you make smart financial decisions and stay motivated to do so while saving for a down payment on a house or paying off debt.
  4. Start saving today. If you haven’t already, set aside a portion of your income each month for an emergency fund or long-term savings.
  5. Manage your debt. Being entirely debt-free is not the main goal as debt can help fund investments or assets to improve your life while allowing you practice good payment behavior.
  6. Invest wisely. Investing can help grow your wealth over time, but it’s important to get into it with eyes wide open. Research different investment options, such as stocks, bonds, and mutual funds, and choose investments that align with your financial goals and risk tolerance.
  7. Benefit from the wisdom of others. Seek advice from a financial advisor or mentor who can provide guidance and support as you work towards your financial goals. You can also make use of online resources such as MortgageCalculator.org to deepen your knowledge about personal finance.

A fun way to sharpen your money smarts

Aside from providing a range of educational resources on mortgages and home buying, MortgageCalculator.org also offers free and easy -to-use mortgage calculators to help users calculate various aspects of their mortgage payments and, ultimately, their financial health.

It also houses a variety of engaging and educational money games that can help users improve their money smarts and practice their financial decision-making using real-world scenarios. Over time, as users develop their financial acumen, they also develop their confidence to make sound financial decisions in real life.

Money Games @ MortgageCalculator.org
Money Games @ MortgageCalculator.org

Want to try your hand at honing your own money smarts through online games at MortgageCalculator.org? Check these out:

  • Cashback: Give the correct change for each transaction by selecting the bills and coins needed to correctly sum to the customer’s change amount. This is perfect for teaching kids about the value of money (because they, too, need to develop money smarts!)
  • Stocks: Ever wondered what it was like to be one of those day traders at Wall Street? This game simulates the up- and down-trends of the stock market while the player tries to buy low while selling high.
  • Red Outpost: Colonize Mars by sending astronauts to harvest food and mine valuable goods. The game approximates the dynamics of building a new economy from the ground up.
  • Coffee Shop: Build your coffee shop business by managing your inventory, cashflow, pricing and formula taking the fluctuations on the demand for coffee based on the weather. This teaches players to balance both internal and external factors in growing a business.
  • Sort the Trash. Move the recycling bins across the screen to catch recyclables such as cans, cartons and bottles. This is a good approximation of the need to weed through all sorts of trash to get the items of value.

These are just a sampling of the games available at at MortgageCalculator.org. Browse through the various categories to find the games that can help you grow your knowledge and skills on financial matters while providing you with lots of fun!

By providing an engaging and interactive way to learn about business strategy and personal finance, these games make learning about money more accessible and fun, which you can then apply to your real-life money strategy.

No matter which stage in life you are right now, developing money smarts is the best way to take control of your finances to get you to achieve financial stability. Honing your financial literacy will help you make smart financial decisions to set you up in a good financial position for life. So take the time to learn about money and take full advantage of the resources available to sharpen your money smarts.